"...love suffers long, and is kind..." 1 Cor. 13:4
"And my God shall supply all your need according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus." Phil. 4:19
Love indeed suffers long and is kind. As you consider your Encouragement Challenge, determine today that you will not say anything negative to or about your husband. Speak kindly to him with words of genuine encouragement. If your husband is considerate of your needs, let him know that you have noticed. Thank him for his kindness and consideration. Thank the Lord that your husband knows how to be both tough and tender.
Sometimes it's difficult for a man to be gentle, kind or tender - especially if he hasn't had role models in these areas. If he's not a considerate person, appeal to him for help without complaining. Let him know that it's hard for you to handle some things alone. Then, when he moves in to help, don't insist that he do it your way. Be glad that he is responding, and express your gratitude. Ultimately, you can't expect your husband to make you feel more secure, loved, etc. Remember that only God can meet the deepest needs of your heart.
2 comments:
Had to tell you what God has done. Yesterday I told you about "never defending yourself" and letting the Holy Spirit defend you instead. My husband just told me he wants to take me to my favorite restaurant tonight for a belated Valentine's Dinner. And without a word from me!!!
God is so good and He truly wants to give us good gifts!
If you didn't read my posting yesterday and want to know about A. W. Tozer's "Five Vows for Spiritual Power" go to http://www.neve-family.com/books/tozer/FiveVows.html
Thank you for your prayers. May God bless each of you in a special way today that confirms His power and love for you.
Hope you had a good dinner Mary! I read the 5 Vows and talk about a challenge! I appreciate your wisdom and prayers.
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